14 signs that he is not ready to love again

Sometimes the guy you meet is good, except for one small problem: you feel that he is not ready for a serious relationship. Do not wait in vain and hope that your love will make it change. Especially if you see the following 14 signs:
1. He has too many feelings too soon.

Does he literally flood you with gifts and flowers, bathe in his attention? Guys often do this when they want to seem perfect, although in fact they have some sort of “fad”. Maybe he wants to cajole you in order to get from you everything he wants, but without commitment.

2. He talks a lot about his ex.

It is not bad to talk about the former, it is even useful to understand what kind of relationship he had and why they ended (maybe he changed her?). But if he constantly remembers his ex, even in conversations that have nothing to do with her, this is a bad sign. He is not ready for a new relationship if he cannot let go of the past.

3. He does not believe in love.

You should be wary if he even jokingly says that love is nonsense, or that this does not happen.Even if he is romantic with you, but on the whole he cynically treats love, it is in jokes that his true feelings are seen. If he criticizes love, then he is not ready for it.

4. His compliments are superficial.

He compliments your appearance, notices a new dress or haircut. But if he never praises any of your qualities or talents, it means he is interested only in your body. If a guy is interested in real relationships, he will be interested in your goals, preferences, hobbies, opinions.

5. He is inconsistent.

When a man is ready for a relationship, you will understand this by how reliable and consistent he is. His words and actions must be the same. When he says he will write or call, he does. When he makes plans with you, he sticks to them. Pay attention to his actions, not just words.

6. He cannot plan ahead.

Maybe he calls himself spontaneous. Maybe he calls you late at night to chat, or to say that he “passed by” and suggest a spontaneous walk. Although it can sometimes seem romantic, usually this behavior is typical of guys who are not ready for a serious relationship.He does not want to make plans with you, he wants to be with you only when it is convenient for him.

7. He does not love himself.

If he has low self-esteem, he will always be treated with disrespect to both himself and others. He will try to violate your boundaries, because he himself has no personal boundaries.

8. He does not know how to communicate.

When you're interested in a guy, he lets you know. He says what he wants. You don't have to think what he is trying to say. If he cannot really explain, if he is fooling your head or not sure what he wants, this is a bad sign.

9. He feels pressured to marry him.

Many men also meet only because they are afraid to be alone, because sometimes marital status increases their status. In this case, it is not fair to you.

10. His life is a bit chaotic.

Maybe he lost his job, he has nowhere to live, he has problems in his family ... In this case, he obviously cannot build healthy and happy relationships. He needs to first deal with his life. Maybe he thinks you will save him? Then it threatens a toxic relationship. You should not solve his problems.

11. He only recently experienced a difficult experience.

Maybe he recently lost a loved one, can only recently broke up with the girl. Maybe he is just trying to distract himself with the help of a new relationship, but this is the wrong way to cope with emotions.

12. He is very lonely.

If he himself tells you that he felt very lonely before you, then he probably meets you out of despair, and not because of sincere feelings. Then he will be dependent on you, and this is an unhealthy trend.

13. He does not compromise.

Relationships require flexibility and ability to adapt to each other. If he does not meet you from the very beginning, this is a bad sign.

14. He tries too hard to please you.

Do not rush to tell him which guy you dreamed about and what family you want. Let him open himself. Maybe he wants to please you so much that he adapts himself too much, pretending that he is just the way you want him to be. How would you then not be disappointed. Wait until you see his real one.


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    14 signs that he is not ready to love again

    14 signs that he is not ready to love again

    14 signs that he is not ready to love again

    14 signs that he is not ready to love again

    14 signs that he is not ready to love again

    14 signs that he is not ready to love again

    14 signs that he is not ready to love again

    14 signs that he is not ready to love again

    14 signs that he is not ready to love again

    14 signs that he is not ready to love again

    14 signs that he is not ready to love again

    14 signs that he is not ready to love again

    14 signs that he is not ready to love again

    14 signs that he is not ready to love again

    14 signs that he is not ready to love again

    14 signs that he is not ready to love again

    14 signs that he is not ready to love again

    14 signs that he is not ready to love again

    14 signs that he is not ready to love again

    14 signs that he is not ready to love again

    14 signs that he is not ready to love again

    14 signs that he is not ready to love again

    14 signs that he is not ready to love again

    14 signs that he is not ready to love again

    14 signs that he is not ready to love again

    14 signs that he is not ready to love again

    14 signs that he is not ready to love again

    14 signs that he is not ready to love again

    14 signs that he is not ready to love again

    14 signs that he is not ready to love again

    14 signs that he is not ready to love again

    14 signs that he is not ready to love again

    14 signs that he is not ready to love again

    14 signs that he is not ready to love again

    14 signs that he is not ready to love again

    14 signs that he is not ready to love again

    14 signs that he is not ready to love again

    14 signs that he is not ready to love again

    14 signs that he is not ready to love again

    14 signs that he is not ready to love again

    14 signs that he is not ready to love again

    14 signs that he is not ready to love again

    14 signs that he is not ready to love again

    14 signs that he is not ready to love again

    14 signs that he is not ready to love again

    14 signs that he is not ready to love again

    14 signs that he is not ready to love again

    14 signs that he is not ready to love again

    14 signs that he is not ready to love again

    14 signs that he is not ready to love again