Usually the beginning of the relationship - the most pleasant. Love, euphoria, passion ... But what if even at the beginning of a relationship do you have any difficulties? Doubts, difficult moments ...
Of course, this is all the little things that, if you wish, you can find an explanation, but your intuition does not for nothing draws your attention to these even small moments.
Here are 9 warning signs that may mean that you should not continue a relationship with this person:
1. He does not introduce you to his friends.
He is already familiar with your best friends, but he never even called you to his company, and he always has excuses. You know that he has friends, because you see their communication and photos on the social network. But he does not invite you to meet with them: maybe because he does not plan anything serious with you, or maybe his friends do not even know about your existence and for them he is still a bachelor.
2. He is emotionally attached to his phone (especially when next to you).
A technology addict guy is not the most attractive option for a relationship.But the guy who can not even escape from the correspondence, when he is on a date with you ... It's taboo. He shows that he does not value your time, nor does he respect you. In general, it is suspicious: who in his life requires an instant response from him? Obviously not his mother and friends. And not you. Be careful.
3. He constantly talks about his "crazy" ex.
This is serious. If a guy throws mud at girls he has met before, he shows a lack of respect for women in general. Do not forget that you can also become his ex, and that he will talk about you like that.
And another thing: what do all his "crazy" exs have in common? They all met him. That is, either he is too exaggerating, or he is a master of driving people out of himself.
4. He cannot make his own decisions.
It can be hard for everyone to make important decisions. But if an adult man constantly turns to mother, friends or even you for help, this is not normal, it means that he is not yet mature, no matter how old he is.
5. You hear more criticism from him than compliments.
When you have been together for a long time, it is natural that there will be some annoying moments.However, at the beginning of a relationship it is not normal if a person criticizes you more than makes compliments.
6. He hides his past.
He speaks very vaguely about his past relationships, never talks about his family and cannot really explain what he does at work. Maybe he doesn’t trust you enough to tell about his life, but maybe he hides something. Directly ask him about it, and if he leaves the answer again, do not continue.
7. He posts more selfies than you.
My mother always told me: “Do not meet a man who looks at himself in the mirror more often than you”. In modern conditions, this can be said about guys who make a lot of selfies. This is strange, very superficial and proves that he needs the assessment of other people.
8. He does not remember the details of your life.
You have been dating for several months, but he cannot remember at what university you studied, or he constantly forgets that you are a vegetarian. Either he is not too interested to remember this, or he confuses you in general with his other girls.
9. He lives beyond his means.
It is strange when the guy is first in line for a new iPhone, rents an apartment in an expensive area and flies to rest exclusively first class - while you know that his salary clearly does not allow this.There are two options: either he still lives on the money of his parents, or is deeply in debt.