Each of us is an irreplaceable, special and complex creation on our unique life path, with our own thoughts, feelings, attitudes, goals, needs, desires and motivation.
When we meet someone new, especially if the person attracts us romantically, we hope that everything will turn out for us. And this means not only that he will respond to us in return, but also that this will happen at the right time and under the right circumstances.
But unfortunately, this is precisely the problem. And even people in a long relationship.We are undergoing many changes, and sometimes, having changed, we no longer approach our partner.We even doubt whether there was anything at all between us.
But the reality is that we may not approach each other in a specific period of time, but come before or after. And no one is to blame. It just sometimes happens that this kind of connection between people either suddenly arises or disappears.
And if we do not want to experience constant pain and suffering, trying to maintain relationships, the only option is to take a deep breath and let go.
To find inner peace and harmony, you need to understand that all that is destined will come true.
Sometimes we think that if we spend enough time, effort and attention, we can save the relationship. But usually it only strangles the person more and leads to a break.
Sometimes, the most courageous thing that we can do is to resist the temptation to cling to the relationship convulsively, but to adequately release them.
When we hear the word “let go,” you might think what it means to throw a person out of your life and turn away from him. But quite the opposite. Letting go - perhaps the most loving and thoughtful act that we can do for ourselves and for another person.
Something inexplicable happens when we consciously remove all pressure, expectations and the need to control and go there, which we are not ready for.
The fear of loss is replaced by faith in oneself and another person. We are sending a strong spiritual signal to the Universe that we believe in our ability to cope with what is destined or not destined to us, that we trust another person to choose what he really wants from his life.
When we open this channel, we feel a surge of new energy, which is marked by new opportunities that we have not noticed before. All our energy was spent on keeping the past, which prevented us from starting something new.
And although it may seem that we will let go and there will never be anything good in our life.