This is Alexey Gusev, the son of the chief editor of the newspaper Moskovsky Komsomolets. And he beats a woman

This is Alexey Gusev, the son of the chief editor of the newspaper Moskovsky Komsomolets. And he beats a woman

This is Alexey Gusev, the son of the chief editor of the newspaper Moskovsky Komsomolets. And he beats a woman.

December 12, Alexey Gusev hit me. Fist in the face. Statement in byI wrote a letter.

For those who do not know - Alexey is a rather large man, physically strong, and regularly goes to the gym to swing.

My weight is 42 kg. height - 155 cm

Now everything is fine with me, I do not need help, and I am not writing to evoke sympathy.

That evening, nothing foreshadowed trouble. In the company of several people, we sat with Alexei at the table and talked peacefully. I know Alexei Pavlovich for a long time, once I worked at an MC, we were on friendly terms.

AP even shared with me the details of their difficult relationship with the girls. They were difficult for one simple reason - Alexey was quick-tempered, so the girls he often changed.

With me, the AP always behaved very politely, so that evening I didn’t even have the thought that something would go wrong. In addition, we have not seen each other for several years, Alexey recently got married, and I was sure that during that time he had changed. But I was wrong.

I do not differ absurd character, on the contrary, it is difficult to find a person more peaceful. Besides, I have not been 16 for a long time, and I know perfectly well that you cannot provoke drunken men. So, when that evening the mood of the AP suddenly suddenly deteriorated, I immediately got ready to leave and called a taxi. But it was too late - Alexey had already become annoyed. At the fateful moment, the AP was sitting at the table, and I was standing nearby. Before hitting me, Alexey got up. Apparently, this saved me from more serious consequences - he just did not manage to swing too much. Fist fell exactly in the side of my nose, and in the teeth.

I flew a few meters away from the blow.

I was lucky - there was no wall behind my back. Therefore, after a free flight, I landed on my ass, and managed to lean on my hands. therefore, I did not hit my head and did not lose consciousness.

I am telling in such detail that it was clear - I remember every second of that evening, and I was not drunk.In the evening I drank 3 glasses of champagne, and this is a drink, from which I always have a clear head.

Consequences of the blow: broken lip, nose bruise (though he suffered, but not broken), hematoma on the thigh, concussion, a problem with his eyesight ...

fortunately for me, everything was literally a little blood. with my weight, and with the power of the AP everything could have ended much worse.

All these days, while I went to the doctors, and came to myself, I thought, whether to write this post. I am a person who does not accept violence in any way, and can never justify it in any way. And she grew up in a family where women are the center of the universe.

I never understood the ladies who are silent about the beatings. Now I understand them. morally it is so painful and humiliating that you want to forget as soon as possible and never remember.
I will say right away that we never had any personal conflicts or accounts with Alexey. I have always recalled with warmth both MK and former colleagues and the chief editor. I never had any personal relationship with Alexey either, and it could not be.
I'm not bothering anyone. And I don’t want to go to court.

I decided to write this post just because I was lucky. And another girl, to whom Aleksey will raise her hand, may have less luck.

As I said, during my work in the MC, Alexey talked a lot about his personal life. From his stories I knew that he raises his hand on his passions. Once he complained that his girlfriend after a quarrel with him was hospitalized in serious condition. I have no evidence, these were the words of the AP. maybe he was lying or just joking? I do not presume to assert. another girl, a former employee of MK, operated on a nose that Alexey broke on her when they met. Now the girl is married, so I can not name her.

There were other cases of aggression. Once, my friend and I were watching a program in the dining room “MK” that Alexey didn’t like, and with the words: turn off this shit, I started throwing heavy wooden chairs at us. my girlfriend and I ran out of the dining room in horror ...

Another time, the AP threw a bottle of whiskey in the girl sitting in the dining room. the girl managed to dodge. there was a dent in the wall ...

I understand that Alexey’s story with me, like other stories, does not threaten anything. With such administrative resources and German citizenship, he has nothing to worry about.

The AP itself also understands this, especially since he is a lawyer by education. But even from him I did not expect such cynicism and arrogance.Or maybe it's something else, I do not know.

The day after the incident, Alexei Gusev, quite satisfied with his life, went through the editorial office, smiled, joked on Facebook, and did not even think to find out what happened to me if I was alive at all, not to mention apologies or help. I wrote to Alexei myself to warn that I recorded injuries (I listed which ones), and I go to the police.

Only after this, the AP apologized (also in the message), but nevertheless, he did not call, did not recognize the details, did not offer help. Instead, he began to make excuses, wrote that I was dramatizing, that he had a difficult period in his family life and he was all nervous, that I myself was to blame, and invented everything, tp ... and also he flirted and joked. proposed, for example, to divorce and marry me. Well, like, maybe this is what I want? No, I wanted elementary human behavior. When people regret something, they try to make amends. Now I am not even talking about money, but about the fact that it didn’t even occur to a person to offer to take me to the hospital or call me and apologize personally.

And in the correspondence, Alexey called the incident a “stupid coincidence” ... and asked: are you still mad at me?

After all this, I have only one question to ask: is a man really used to beating women that he does not even consider this something out of the ordinary? that he thinks all this is a joke? or a banal quarrel? Yes, Alexey wrote that he was very sorry ... he regrets that he did not go to another place that evening. Yes, he offered me help. on the 4th day, after I had gone around all the doctors and sent him my photo with a broken face. then he first tried to dial me. I did not talk to him. I have nothing to say to him.

I ask now through FB: I do not need to call, and do not even try to approach me. I am afraid of you! All telephone calls from other numbers will be recorded.
If I receive any threats, I will immediately write about it online and tell colleagues and the police.

It is time to learn to answer for their actions.

Unfortunately, only Alexei’s friends witnessed what happened. I understand that they have already discussed the situation and decided how to behave. I just didn’t guess to call the police right away, because I was in a state of shock.

One of the witnesses is a girl. All evening she sat, hugging Alexei, and not taking his eyes off him.When I asked if she would be able to confirm what had happened to the police, she replied that she did not remember the moment of the blow, she had a memory failure at that very moment. Apparently blinked at that second. I decided not to call her name. And I will not condemn it either. Everyone makes their own choice.

Actually I have everything: be careful and carefully choose the people with whom you communicate.

PS: Alexey recently got married for the first time. I want to tell his wife: Maria, if he has already hit at least once, leave. he will repeat it again. Believe - beats, it means loves to beat. nobody and nothing is worth life and health. it is not “dirty linen in public”, it is your life. if a man after this says that you are dramatizing, or that it happens to everyone, or that he struck because you brought it yourself, do not believe it. in normal men, this reaction will never happen. violent people will always justify themselves. they do not need a reason to hit, they will invent it themselves. You should not be silent and wait for you to be taken out to the forest and begin to cut off your fingers.

PPS: All the last week I have constantly stumbled upon news of domestic violence. some terrible stories about women who have been beaten for years.and the wife of a famous Russian footballer the other day posted a photo of her bruises in the social network, but almost immediately deleted it. women are afraid to talk about being beaten. because it is very embarrassing. For some reason, ashamed women (!), And not those who raise their hands on them. and even if it was so difficult for me to write this post, I can imagine how difficult it is to speak out loud about those who live with you under the same roof. I was discouraged by many to write about the AP. they said that there will always be those who say, she is to blame. but I have nothing to be ashamed of. This is a healthy man who hit me, should be ashamed, not me. And I do not know what men think after the fight. maybe they let off steam, calm down, can blame themselves, maybe it turns them on. but now I know what a woman feels when they hit her fist in the face: if only he had not hit the second time now.

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  • This is Alexey Gusev, the son of the chief editor of the newspaper Moskovsky Komsomolets. And he beats a woman

    This is Alexey Gusev, the son of the chief editor of the newspaper Moskovsky Komsomolets. And he beats a woman

    This is Alexey Gusev, the son of the chief editor of the newspaper Moskovsky Komsomolets. And he beats a woman

    This is Alexey Gusev, the son of the chief editor of the newspaper Moskovsky Komsomolets. And he beats a woman

    This is Alexey Gusev, the son of the chief editor of the newspaper Moskovsky Komsomolets. And he beats a woman

    This is Alexey Gusev, the son of the chief editor of the newspaper Moskovsky Komsomolets. And he beats a woman

    This is Alexey Gusev, the son of the chief editor of the newspaper Moskovsky Komsomolets. And he beats a woman

    This is Alexey Gusev, the son of the chief editor of the newspaper Moskovsky Komsomolets. And he beats a woman

    This is Alexey Gusev, the son of the chief editor of the newspaper Moskovsky Komsomolets. And he beats a woman

    This is Alexey Gusev, the son of the chief editor of the newspaper Moskovsky Komsomolets. And he beats a woman

    This is Alexey Gusev, the son of the chief editor of the newspaper Moskovsky Komsomolets. And he beats a woman

    This is Alexey Gusev, the son of the chief editor of the newspaper Moskovsky Komsomolets. And he beats a woman

    This is Alexey Gusev, the son of the chief editor of the newspaper Moskovsky Komsomolets. And he beats a woman

    This is Alexey Gusev, the son of the chief editor of the newspaper Moskovsky Komsomolets. And he beats a woman

    This is Alexey Gusev, the son of the chief editor of the newspaper Moskovsky Komsomolets. And he beats a woman

    This is Alexey Gusev, the son of the chief editor of the newspaper Moskovsky Komsomolets. And he beats a woman

    This is Alexey Gusev, the son of the chief editor of the newspaper Moskovsky Komsomolets. And he beats a woman

    This is Alexey Gusev, the son of the chief editor of the newspaper Moskovsky Komsomolets. And he beats a woman

    This is Alexey Gusev, the son of the chief editor of the newspaper Moskovsky Komsomolets. And he beats a woman

    This is Alexey Gusev, the son of the chief editor of the newspaper Moskovsky Komsomolets. And he beats a woman

    This is Alexey Gusev, the son of the chief editor of the newspaper Moskovsky Komsomolets. And he beats a woman

    This is Alexey Gusev, the son of the chief editor of the newspaper Moskovsky Komsomolets. And he beats a woman

    This is Alexey Gusev, the son of the chief editor of the newspaper Moskovsky Komsomolets. And he beats a woman

    This is Alexey Gusev, the son of the chief editor of the newspaper Moskovsky Komsomolets. And he beats a woman

    This is Alexey Gusev, the son of the chief editor of the newspaper Moskovsky Komsomolets. And he beats a woman

    This is Alexey Gusev, the son of the chief editor of the newspaper Moskovsky Komsomolets. And he beats a woman

    This is Alexey Gusev, the son of the chief editor of the newspaper Moskovsky Komsomolets. And he beats a woman

    This is Alexey Gusev, the son of the chief editor of the newspaper Moskovsky Komsomolets. And he beats a woman

    This is Alexey Gusev, the son of the chief editor of the newspaper Moskovsky Komsomolets. And he beats a woman

    This is Alexey Gusev, the son of the chief editor of the newspaper Moskovsky Komsomolets. And he beats a woman

    This is Alexey Gusev, the son of the chief editor of the newspaper Moskovsky Komsomolets. And he beats a woman

    This is Alexey Gusev, the son of the chief editor of the newspaper Moskovsky Komsomolets. And he beats a woman

    This is Alexey Gusev, the son of the chief editor of the newspaper Moskovsky Komsomolets. And he beats a woman

    This is Alexey Gusev, the son of the chief editor of the newspaper Moskovsky Komsomolets. And he beats a woman

    This is Alexey Gusev, the son of the chief editor of the newspaper Moskovsky Komsomolets. And he beats a woman

    This is Alexey Gusev, the son of the chief editor of the newspaper Moskovsky Komsomolets. And he beats a woman

    This is Alexey Gusev, the son of the chief editor of the newspaper Moskovsky Komsomolets. And he beats a woman

    This is Alexey Gusev, the son of the chief editor of the newspaper Moskovsky Komsomolets. And he beats a woman

    This is Alexey Gusev, the son of the chief editor of the newspaper Moskovsky Komsomolets. And he beats a woman

    This is Alexey Gusev, the son of the chief editor of the newspaper Moskovsky Komsomolets. And he beats a woman

    This is Alexey Gusev, the son of the chief editor of the newspaper Moskovsky Komsomolets. And he beats a woman

    This is Alexey Gusev, the son of the chief editor of the newspaper Moskovsky Komsomolets. And he beats a woman

    This is Alexey Gusev, the son of the chief editor of the newspaper Moskovsky Komsomolets. And he beats a woman

    This is Alexey Gusev, the son of the chief editor of the newspaper Moskovsky Komsomolets. And he beats a woman

    This is Alexey Gusev, the son of the chief editor of the newspaper Moskovsky Komsomolets. And he beats a woman

    This is Alexey Gusev, the son of the chief editor of the newspaper Moskovsky Komsomolets. And he beats a woman

    This is Alexey Gusev, the son of the chief editor of the newspaper Moskovsky Komsomolets. And he beats a woman

    This is Alexey Gusev, the son of the chief editor of the newspaper Moskovsky Komsomolets. And he beats a woman

    This is Alexey Gusev, the son of the chief editor of the newspaper Moskovsky Komsomolets. And he beats a woman

    This is Alexey Gusev, the son of the chief editor of the newspaper Moskovsky Komsomolets. And he beats a woman

    This is Alexey Gusev, the son of the chief editor of the newspaper Moskovsky Komsomolets. And he beats a woman

    This is Alexey Gusev, the son of the chief editor of the newspaper Moskovsky Komsomolets. And he beats a woman